Day 651 & The Little Details Make all the Difference - Metrics and Implementation Intention

Day 651 Record Keeping (78)
Day 620 Fixed Meditation
Day 497 Writing (74)
Day 37 Rowing (77)

Great sleep, great wakeup.
 

The Little Details Make all the Difference - Metrics and Implementation Intention

I finally got around to measuring my body for a solid metric on weight loss. I have been procrastinating on this for probably a year now. It really reminded me of a talk I recently had with my mother on meditation. I was advising her on how to make it a habit, and told her that the one thing that made all the difference for me was a basic measurement tool - a stop watch. 

One of the first stories I ever read on meditation was a book called Henry Sugar and Six More, a couple of short stories by Roald Dahl. Henry Sugar is a British gentleman who becomes very very good at meditation. His tools were a candle and flame and a stop watch. Ever since reading that story, which must’ve been when I was 10, I thought about doing exactly what he did.

I laughingly told my mom that I had been procrastinating getting a stop watch for well over 2 decades. I told her that since she has a stop watch now (she only procrastinated for a week or two) she was probably going to make faster improvements than I had. But it really is true - we always seem to overlook this key ingredient.

What your skill level is now is an important piece of data - a talisman that shows us that we are indeed improving despite feeling like we are endlessly churning our legs in the mud. It’s what the quantified self movement is all about. It keeps us focused through the danger zones and keeps us moving forward, because we have evidence that we have moved forward. This is particularly key in a habit-centric formulation of self improvement, when you’re doing a task automatically, with no feeling, at least initially, of pushing a skill. 

Another, similarly overlooked talisman is implementation intention, and forming a particularly crisp if-then parameter. I formed one for my writing habit, which has been lagging since I’ve been pushing it lately. Even the most mundane of solid actions can be used to create a fold in the mind that promotes automaticity.

For me, I tend to rest and drink a glass of water after rowing. So my implementation intention now is “after I finish my glass of water after rowing I sit down and start my writing habit.” Pretty easy, but like metrics, I bowl right over it, and later on I wonder why my SRHI scores aren’t improving. And now, I can already see the improvement occurring.

I’ve been writing down little maxims in a book I carry on self improvement. From all of this I’ve extracted two:

Tools and data pertaining to metrics are invaluable to self improvement, but are almost always forgotten

The more precise the implementation intention, the stronger and quicker automaticity ensues.

Day 189 & Additional Scaling to Meditation and Bodyweights

Day 189 Record Keeping 
Day 157 Fixed Meditation 
Day 103 Bodyweight Exercise  (3 ground up bridges, 1x4 dragon lifts)
Day 30 Writing = 38
Day 203 Eating = 78
Great sleep, great wakeup. 

Additional Scaling to Meditation and Bodyweights

After reading Mastering the Core Teachings of the Buddha and perusing the Dharma Overground the conclusion I’ve come to is that there are various facets of meditation. As far as I can tell you can work on single pointed concentration, “energy” work/tantra, and insight meditation.

Energy work or tantric style meditation (no not sexual stuff like how tantra is mischaracterized in the West) is what I’d categorize what I’m working on now. I basically use imagination, sensation, and visualization to drain away negative emotion and transform it into positive emotion. This has been the root of my training.

After reading the MCTB I’ve tacked on insight meditation - distantly observing sensations arising, staying the same, and lessening - a practice that has helped me immensely not only with emotional control, but controlling pain. 

What I’ve lacked is really serious single pointed meditation training. In Roald Dahl’s short story The Wonderful Story of Henry Sugar the main character does this by taking a stop watch and literally times how long he can concentrate on one object. I’ve started doing the same and will start recording stats.

I’ve also decided to alternate days on this in 2 day splits - just like with bodyweight training’s 3 day splits. Every day I’ll work on the emotional energy thing, then add in either single pointed or insight training on alternating days.

Bodyweight training is going really well. I’m able to do 3x8 burpees with knee slappers and I’m starting in on full diamond pushups. I’ve made amazing progress with my core and am very proud to start training for the dragon flag.

The dragon flag is one of the most intense core exercises, and I thought I wouldn’t be ready for a long long time. But it too presents problems with scaling. Thank god for youtube. The guy in THIS video has a lot of tips on starting off and gradually progressing with the exercise. I’m at the lowest lowest rung on that progression, the beginner exercises of simply doing a leg raise, going past that and getting the butt off the ground and extending out without letting my butt touch the ground (what I’m calling “dragon lifts” - though I’m sure there’s got to be a better term for it).

It’s hard but I’m really excited to get started on it.